May this year brings love, success, peace and prosperity in our lives...
Have a blast!!!
Be happy...Keep smiling....Enjoy.....
Take care and have a great time....
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Sunday, November 29, 2009
SHE
Here! my dear readers.....
I remember long back... I recited this beautiful poem in one of my recitation competitions, my english teacher got this to me.... I am sorry but the name of the poet is unknown....
This poem is actually about the life of a 'Girl', how she turns from a small child to a lady.... cursed on each and every step of her life by the people.... She is sorry for she was born a Girl...She is silent all the time though sad... and defeated..................
SHE
Only a sigh and a deep regret
of her parents' distress
Told her she was born a Girl.
As she grew up she was so good
outstanding in every class
Be it dance or art
But she heard no encouraging remark
As her father had to say,
Its no use, she is to get married one day
And she was sorry she was born a Girl.
When she got married she expected a quiet life as a dutiful wife
But none was greatful for her daily labours
All they did was to curse her again
For giving birth to a baby girl
And she was sorry
That her baby was a Girl.
When her husband was alive, she was a lonely wife
After his death she led a lonlier life
Her miseries multiplied into plenty
All she had was treachery.
It was strange, but it was true
She was missing the man; her husband who often made her sorry for being born a girl
She regretted again
Again she sobbed
Why she had not allowed
Then to burn her along
With her husband's pyre?
Why had she rebelled?
What had she gained?
Today several years later
After several laws and regulations
They still burn her alive
Though not on her husband's pyre
For her husband lives,
Leering at her burning corpse
To wait for another wealthier prop
Her little daughter waits in a corner.
Suddenly wiser, wiser than before
Understanding why she should be sorry
That she is a Girl...........
Take care and have a great tym...
I remember long back... I recited this beautiful poem in one of my recitation competitions, my english teacher got this to me.... I am sorry but the name of the poet is unknown....
This poem is actually about the life of a 'Girl', how she turns from a small child to a lady.... cursed on each and every step of her life by the people.... She is sorry for she was born a Girl...She is silent all the time though sad... and defeated..................
SHE
The moment she was born
A deep sadness descended on her frame
Joy and laughter did not welcome herOnly a sigh and a deep regret
of her parents' distress
Told her she was born a Girl.
As she grew up she was so good
outstanding in every class
Be it dance or art
But she heard no encouraging remark
As her father had to say,
Its no use, she is to get married one day
And she was sorry she was born a Girl.
When she got married she expected a quiet life as a dutiful wife
But none was greatful for her daily labours
All they did was to curse her again
For giving birth to a baby girl
And she was sorry
That her baby was a Girl.
When her husband was alive, she was a lonely wife
After his death she led a lonlier life
Her miseries multiplied into plenty
All she had was treachery.
It was strange, but it was true
She was missing the man; her husband who often made her sorry for being born a girl
She regretted again
Again she sobbed
Why she had not allowed
Then to burn her along
With her husband's pyre?
Why had she rebelled?
What had she gained?
Today several years later
After several laws and regulations
They still burn her alive
Though not on her husband's pyre
For her husband lives,
Leering at her burning corpse
To wait for another wealthier prop
Her little daughter waits in a corner.
Suddenly wiser, wiser than before
Understanding why she should be sorry
That she is a Girl...........
Take care and have a great tym...
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Friday, October 16, 2009
Dowry system....A social evil
Introduction
Here.... I am talking about a very much prevalent and a dreadful social evil.... DOWRY System. It has been huge problem in India and has been a great problem and source of embarrassment and disturbances in most parts of our society...
Dowry actually is a cultural system where the parents of the bride give away some money, expensive gifts to her so that in case of lack of resources she can lead a comfortable life ahead after marriage. Historically, this system was willingly followed by the parents of the bride in many parts of the world, but now at many places (especially in India) it is it is being forcefully asked for. Earlier the system was prevalent only in the wealthier families but now unfortunately the greed of dowry has struck to most ordinary families and has become an unspoken demand for marriages.
It is true that a young man may require financial support to settle comfortably in his life and to fulfill other needs, but it should not be a reason to ask for dowry and to spoil the life of a girl if both the girl and boy are capable in all the ways to earn and settle with a comfortable life. Gifts that a girl gets from her parents home should solely be their wish and there should be no pressure to spend more while marrying their daughter. There are many instances when a wife commits suicide, because of her helplessness to tolerate the harassment for dowry. There are many instances when a wife is murdered because her parents were not able to give enough dowry. This murder is usually made like an accident. Stop violence against women! Legally, dowry is a banned practice in India but still happens all over the place. Many sensible and educated youths have gone against the idea of Dowry and they simply have a noble intention of marrying the without taking any money. Surprisingly, these days the ladies are themselves very much interested for huge amounts of dowry. Firstly the promise of all the marriage arrangements and then the huge amounts of dowry make the parents financially very weak and because of dowry system, people no longer prefer having a baby girl in India.
Dowry law in India
Dowry was prohibited in 1961 under Indian civil law and followed by Sections 304B and 498a of the Indian Penal Code. Individuals involved in dowry can be sent to jail for 6 months to 3 years. This includes husband, Father-In-Law, Mother-In-Law or any other relatives or non-relatives found guilty. It can also include fine. But if a murder is committed then there is at least a 7 year or life in prison, plus fine.
People contact police, media organizations and women liberation outfits to get maximum attention and this way ladies misuse this law by accusing boy’s family wrongly for dowry because of some personal tensions. This becomes very problematic for the family who faces.
Dowry was prohibited in 1961 under Indian civil law and followed by Sections 304B and 498a of the Indian Penal Code. Individuals involved in dowry can be sent to jail for 6 months to 3 years. This includes husband, Father-In-Law, Mother-In-Law or any other relatives or non-relatives found guilty. It can also include fine. But if a murder is committed then there is at least a 7 year or life in prison, plus fine.
People contact police, media organizations and women liberation outfits to get maximum attention and this way ladies misuse this law by accusing boy’s family wrongly for dowry because of some personal tensions. This becomes very problematic for the family who faces.
Lastly I would just say that like I am strictly against this practice of dowry every one of us should join hands and remove this social evil from our society……
Take care and have a great time…..
Sunday, September 6, 2009
I am Loving it...
Exams are over by now and I am loving this time now....
After it is all over I can realise that why I was going through such a stressful time for so long....
I think all this happened bcoz i missed my classes whatever the reason may be like I wasn't well I had to take leaves, i had to give some more time to my tennis practices and third and most importantly I was overconfident as I was told that class 11th has to be taken lightly and this made me less serious...
Dear readers any class is niether very light or very difficult, it only depends on the way you take it. Pleasure activities are all the more important, it is just that we should give separate attention to both the things and everthing becomes simple(- or complicated) so it is only we who decide how to take this. I have realised the importance attending all the lectures in the class. One has to be both mentally and physically present in the class coz this actually make things easier to go through and then learn at home. It is just that i never faced such a stress and ne'er studied so much at home.... And by this I can judge my performance has also gone down this time. The reason is when you can understand things in the class the only left task is to read it once at home and you will find everthing already 'imprinted' in your minds. I think this is one of the best methods of stress management, even meditation helps a lot..... try this you'll definitely find this useful.
They say,
Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness. ~Richard Carlson
so why not...
Give your stress wings and let it fly away. ~Carin Hartness
Take care n have a great time....
After it is all over I can realise that why I was going through such a stressful time for so long....
I think all this happened bcoz i missed my classes whatever the reason may be like I wasn't well I had to take leaves, i had to give some more time to my tennis practices and third and most importantly I was overconfident as I was told that class 11th has to be taken lightly and this made me less serious...
Dear readers any class is niether very light or very difficult, it only depends on the way you take it. Pleasure activities are all the more important, it is just that we should give separate attention to both the things and everthing becomes simple(- or complicated) so it is only we who decide how to take this. I have realised the importance attending all the lectures in the class. One has to be both mentally and physically present in the class coz this actually make things easier to go through and then learn at home. It is just that i never faced such a stress and ne'er studied so much at home.... And by this I can judge my performance has also gone down this time. The reason is when you can understand things in the class the only left task is to read it once at home and you will find everthing already 'imprinted' in your minds. I think this is one of the best methods of stress management, even meditation helps a lot..... try this you'll definitely find this useful.
They say,
Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness. ~Richard Carlson
so why not...
Give your stress wings and let it fly away. ~Carin Hartness
Take care n have a great time....
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Exams Ke Bhoot Se Bachao.....
Yes, This is what i am feeling right now. God somebody help me!!!!!!!!I am not getting time for anything. At nights when i sleep the mathematical and accounting problems are just revolving in my mind. Even at nights I am busy solving questions in my copies the roots, trigonometric identities, cash books, journals etc etc. it is a long list and you know what this is the time when I feel like doing lot many new things. I have numerous creative ideas bulging in my mind.I think this is what happens with almost every student (like me i.e. who study in the last days of the exams). I just wanna say SORRY to all my dear blog visitors for not updating the blog hereby.
“Why Study For Exams.... Are they not about what you know, not about how much you can cram into your head the night before?”
This is what everyone here 'suffering' from Exam Fever should read again and again. Just read it and console yourself because this is what one can do at the extreme moment.
But they say,
“Those who do not study are only cattle dressed up in men's clothes”
So, at the end we have to study whatever may the situation be. One thing we can do is that just think about the time when the exams are over and its a party time for everybody coz this is what i do and the time passes away happily ever after.....
Wishing everyone luck!
ALL THE BEST!!
Monday, August 10, 2009
Righteousness
Where there is righteousness in heart,
There is beauty in character
Where there is beauty in character,
There is harmony at the home
Where there is harmony at the home,
There is order in nation
Where there is order in nation,
There is peace in the world...........
A Hymn
APJ Abdul Kalam
There is beauty in character
Where there is beauty in character,
There is harmony at the home
Where there is harmony at the home,
There is order in nation
Where there is order in nation,
There is peace in the world...........
A Hymn
APJ Abdul Kalam
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Child Labour.. A Social Evil..
One in these days I saw some child labourers, one was a house maid, the other one was a sweeper and the third one was doing a job of washing utensils and clothes in a restaurant. My heart brimmed with tears when I saw their condition. With a heavy heart when I asked them for why they didn't go to study, "Who will work and earn money for the livelihood of my family?" they said.
“All the problems of the world - child labor, corruption - are symptoms of a spiritual disease: lack of compassion.”
The ever increasing problem of child labour is not only cruelty against children but also a black spot on our nation's face. Though many countries boast of being superior from one another but in many of the developing countries like India, the problem of child labour is still prevalent.
People sell their children for money, they are treated as slaves. Population play a lead role in the rise of child labour. People should understand if giving birth to more children means more helping hands, it also means more mouths to feed. In large but illiterate families children are forced to work. They are badly exploited. They are given more and more work but are underpaid. Most of the times, the working conditions are hazardous which make them vulnerable to various health problems. Poor they are, their childhood which is the most happening phase of ones life is spent like this……
To control this problem, various measures should be strictly adopted not only by the government but also by the common man. The one who keeps a child as labourer should be strictly punished. Awareness programmes such as street plays or counselling of the poor and illiterate may contribute further.
“All the problems of the world - child labor, corruption - are symptoms of a spiritual disease: lack of compassion.”
I think most of us feel the same... Please make others also feel this and control child labour... Today the power lie in our hands, it is just we have to seek the right way to use it…
The Right To Information Act...
One in these days I was reading about one of the most recent and important right of the citizens of India i.e. The Right To Information Act.
A common man, while dealing with Government departments was facing with problems such as cumbersome process, faulty procedure, mismanagement of records, uneasiness even in paying govt taxes to the govt.With a view to bring transparency in the functioning, to create a sense of responsibility amongst the govt. officials right from grass root level up to the top decision making level, to uproot the corruption ,THE RIGHT TO INFORMATION ACT, is in force, which is likely to be proved a very useful tool in the hands of citizens to get their grievances against the govt. redressed , in a time bound manner.Now citizens are enjoying the fruits of real democracy, by asking the questions from any government organisation easily and more frequently, for which the citizens were dependent on our elected representatives. Any type of information which the govt. or govt. funded/controlled institutions are supposed to have can be demanded by any citizen from anywhere in the country, without disclosing any reason for seeking the information.
As A Social Audit!
The queries, under this act, may bring in the lime light, the acts of omissions and commissions, including cases of harassment, inaction, undue favour, corruption, abuse of power by the officials of govt.Therefore, this way it works as a SOCIAL AUDIT. It facilitates the well informed citizen to live with dignity and contentment.
Towards A Negative Aspect!
Since, the citizens have the freedom to ask any query from the govt. and its respective funded or supported organisations, many times people misuse this right. Just for small inquiries many kinds of confidential secrets are driven out which leads to many undesirable events.Moreover, it becomes very inconvenient for the govt. organisations to take out and give away such important documents and informative history of that particular body.
A common man, while dealing with Government departments was facing with problems such as cumbersome process, faulty procedure, mismanagement of records, uneasiness even in paying govt taxes to the govt.With a view to bring transparency in the functioning, to create a sense of responsibility amongst the govt. officials right from grass root level up to the top decision making level, to uproot the corruption ,THE RIGHT TO INFORMATION ACT, is in force, which is likely to be proved a very useful tool in the hands of citizens to get their grievances against the govt. redressed , in a time bound manner.Now citizens are enjoying the fruits of real democracy, by asking the questions from any government organisation easily and more frequently, for which the citizens were dependent on our elected representatives. Any type of information which the govt. or govt. funded/controlled institutions are supposed to have can be demanded by any citizen from anywhere in the country, without disclosing any reason for seeking the information.
As A Social Audit!
The queries, under this act, may bring in the lime light, the acts of omissions and commissions, including cases of harassment, inaction, undue favour, corruption, abuse of power by the officials of govt.Therefore, this way it works as a SOCIAL AUDIT. It facilitates the well informed citizen to live with dignity and contentment.
Towards A Negative Aspect!
Since, the citizens have the freedom to ask any query from the govt. and its respective funded or supported organisations, many times people misuse this right. Just for small inquiries many kinds of confidential secrets are driven out which leads to many undesirable events.Moreover, it becomes very inconvenient for the govt. organisations to take out and give away such important documents and informative history of that particular body.
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