Life is a tale 

told by an idiot 

full of sound and fury,

signifying nothing.

                -William Shakespeare 

Take care and have a great time..

Life is Beautiful!!!

First of all its a BIG SORRY to all my dear readers.... For not updating it...

But right now I m really very happy.....

A long and a difficult  time of my life is finally  left behind....

And now i realise that this period which i called very difficult has given me a lot to learn...

I can now understand that FORGIVING is  really important...We should return LOVE against HATRED.... Because WE love ourselves even after doing many mistakes, then how can we hate others for their one mistake??Seems Strange but True...

And now its time to just be happy and keep smiling all the time.... 

Some people are responsible for making one's life beautiful...Similarly, even my life has certain people who have become so important to me that now my life seems to be incomplete without them....Some people are actually very special in one's life and their presence becomes inevitable....This is a message for the ones I really love and Thank from the bottom of my heart for making me smile all the time....

Being SINGLE is always fun, no worries. no misery, no pain..... but what if we have some worries, pain and misery?? What if we are in a situation where we feel like having SOMEONE who give their shoulders for when you are crying... Someone who looks at you and says"You look beautiful today".... SOMEONE to hold your hands in theirs and say"I am here with you always"....SOMEONE who hugs you tightly and says"Miss you.. take care" ;  And that SOMEONE is the one who loves u you a lot  and say these golden words " I love you" ............ Then why do people say being SINGLE is fun? 

So, even if you don't love anyone, at least let SOMEONE love you!

And..Last but not the least ...

Every test in our life makes us BETTER / BITTER.

Every problem comes to MAKE US / BREAK US. 

Choice is Ours whether we become VICTOR / VICTIM.

 
Take care and have a great time....


Source: Messages(SMS) from my friends..

Happy New Year 2010!!!!

          Wishing everyone a very happy new year..

May this year brings love, success, peace and prosperity in our lives... 

Have a blast!!!

Be happy...Keep smiling....Enjoy.....

Take care and have a great time....

SHE

Here! my dear readers.....
I remember long back... I recited this beautiful poem in one of my recitation competitions, my english teacher got this to me.... I am sorry but the name of the poet is unknown....

This poem is actually about the life of a 'Girl', how she turns from a small child to a lady.... cursed on each and every step of her life by the people.... She is sorry for she was born a Girl...She is silent all the time though sad... and defeated.................. 

SHE

The moment she was born

A deep sadness descended on her frame

Joy and laughter did not welcome her
Only a sigh and a deep regret
of her parents' distress
Told her she was born a Girl.

As she grew up she was so good
outstanding in every class
Be it dance or art
But she heard no encouraging remark
As her father had to say,
Its no use, she is to get married one day
And she was sorry she was born a Girl.

When she got married she expected a quiet life as a dutiful wife
But none was greatful for her daily labours
All they did was to curse her again
For giving birth to a baby girl
And she was sorry
That her baby was a Girl.

When her husband was alive, she was a lonely wife
After his death she led a lonlier life
Her miseries multiplied into plenty
All she had was treachery.

It was strange, but it was true
She was missing the man; her husband who often made her sorry for being born a girl
She regretted again
Again she sobbed
Why she had not allowed
Then to burn her along
With her husband's pyre?
Why had she rebelled?
What had she gained?

Today several years later
After several laws and regulations
They still burn her alive
Though not on her husband's pyre
For her husband lives,
Leering at her burning corpse
To wait for another wealthier prop
Her little daughter waits in a corner.
Suddenly wiser, wiser than  before
Understanding why she should be sorry
That she is a Girl...........

Take care and have a great tym...

HAPPY DIWALI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dowry system....A social evil

Introduction

Here.... I am talking about a very much prevalent and a dreadful social evil.... DOWRY System. It has been huge problem in India and has been a great problem and source of embarrassment and disturbances in most parts of our society...

Dowry actually is a cultural system where the parents of the bride give away some money, expensive gifts to her so that in case of lack of resources she can lead a comfortable life ahead after marriage. Historically, this system was willingly followed by the parents of the bride in many parts of the world, but now at many places (especially in India) it is it is being forcefully asked for. Earlier the system was prevalent only in the wealthier families but now unfortunately the greed of dowry has struck to most ordinary families and has become an unspoken demand for marriages.

It is true that a young man may require financial support to settle comfortably in his life and to fulfill other needs, but it should not be a reason to ask for dowry and to spoil the life of a girl if both the girl and boy are capable in all the ways to earn and settle with a comfortable life. Gifts that a girl gets from her parents home should solely be their wish and there should be no pressure to spend more while marrying their daughter. There are many instances when a wife commits suicide, because of her helplessness to tolerate the harassment for dowry. There are many instances when a wife is murdered because her parents were not able to give enough dowry. This murder is usually made like an accident. Stop violence against women! Legally, dowry is a banned practice in India but still happens all over the place. Many sensible and educated youths have gone against the idea of Dowry and they simply have a noble intention of marrying the without taking any money. Surprisingly, these days the ladies are themselves very much interested for huge amounts of dowry. Firstly the promise of all the marriage arrangements and then the huge amounts of dowry make the parents financially very weak and because of dowry system, people no longer prefer having a baby girl in India.

Dowry law in India
Dowry was prohibited in 1961 under Indian civil law and followed by Sections 304B and 498a of the Indian Penal Code. Individuals involved in dowry can be sent to jail for 6 months to 3 years. This includes husband, Father-In-Law, Mother-In-Law or any other relatives or non-relatives found guilty. It can also include fine. But if a murder is committed then there is at least a 7 year or life in prison, plus fine.

People contact police, media organizations and women liberation outfits to get maximum attention and this way ladies misuse this law by accusing boy’s family wrongly for dowry because of some personal tensions. This becomes very problematic for the family who faces.

Lastly I would just say that like I am strictly against this practice of dowry every one of us should join hands and remove this social evil from our society……

Take care and have a great time…..

One thing I wanted to share...

I am Loving it...

Exams are over by now and I am loving this time now....
After it is all over I can realise that why I was going through such a stressful time for so long....
I think all this happened bcoz i missed my classes whatever the reason may be like I wasn't well I had to take leaves, i had to give some more time to my tennis practices and third and most importantly I was overconfident as I was told that class 11th has to be taken lightly and this made me less serious...
Dear readers any class is niether very light or very difficult, it only depends on the way you take it. Pleasure activities are all the more important, it is just that we should give separate attention to both the things and everthing becomes simple(- or complicated) so it is only we who decide how to take this. I have realised the importance attending all the lectures in the class. One has to be both mentally and physically present in the class coz this actually make things easier to go through and then learn at home. It is just that i never faced such a stress and ne'er studied so much at home.... And by this I can judge my performance has also gone down this time. The reason is when you can understand things in the class the only left task is to read it once at home and you will find everthing already 'imprinted' in your minds. I think this is one of the best methods of stress management, even meditation helps a lot..... try this you'll definitely find this useful.
They say,
Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness. ~Richard Carlson
so why not...
Give your stress wings and let it fly away. ~Carin Hartness

Take care n have a great time....

Exams Ke Bhoot Se Bachao.....

Yes, This is what i am feeling right now. God somebody help me!!!!!!!!
I am not getting time for anything. At nights when i sleep the mathematical and accounting problems are just revolving in my mind. Even at nights I am busy solving questions in my copies the roots, trigonometric identities, cash books, journals etc etc. it is a long list and you know what this is the time when I feel like doing lot many new things. I have numerous creative ideas bulging in my mind.I think this is what happens with almost every student (like me i.e. who study in the last days of the exams). I just wanna say SORRY to all my dear blog visitors for not updating the blog hereby.

“Why Study For Exams.... Are they not about what you know, not about how much you can cram into your head the night before?”

This is what everyone here 'suffering' from Exam Fever should read again and again. Just read it and console yourself because this is what one can do at the extreme moment.

But they say,

“Those who do not study are only cattle dressed up in men's clothes”

So, at the end we have to study whatever may the situation be. One thing we can do is that just think about the time when the exams are over and its a party time for everybody coz this is what i do and the time passes away happily ever after.....
Wishing everyone luck!
ALL THE BEST!!

Righteousness

Where there is righteousness in heart,
There is beauty in character
Where there is beauty in character,
There is harmony at the home
Where there is harmony at the home,
There is order in nation
Where there is order in nation,
There is peace in the world...........
A Hymn



APJ Abdul Kalam